Empathetic care informed by lived experience

I’m so glad you’re here.

As a reproductive grief and trauma therapist, my mission is to support you through one of life’s most challenging experiences.  Navigating infertility treatments, pregnancy loss and unwanted childlessness can be overwhelming, and I am here to offer a compassionate, empathetic, and personalized approach to support your emotional well-being.

My Journey

My passion for working in this field stems from my own lived experience with infertility treatments and pregnancy loss. I am deeply familiar with the feeling of facing a future you did not anticipate, and working to build a meaningful and fulfilling life anyway. As a member of this community I am committed to providing a safe space where you can process the complex emotions that accompany this unique journey. I utilize a mix of narrative therapy, acceptance commitment therapy,  (and sometimes humor) to pave the way towards resilience and hope.

Professional Background

I hold a Masters of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy from Seattle Pacific University, I am a fully-licensed Marriage Family Therapist in the state of Washington, and am an active member of the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM). Over the years, I have gained experience in helping individuals and couples navigate the emotional challenges of infertility treatments, pregnancy loss, unwanted childlessness, 3rd party reproductive treatments, termination for medical reasons (TFMR) and other forms of unwanted reproductive experiences.

In addition to my clinical experience, I continuously seek to deepen my knowledge through ongoing education and professional development. This ensures that I bring the latest research and best practices to my work, helping you find the most effective support.

My Approach

I believe in a whole-person approach to therapy, one that addresses not just the emotional and psychological realities but also recognizes the physical, relational, financial, and generational dimensions of your experience. And recognizing that relationships and conversations can be a major part of your journey, I hope to equip you with strategies to seek the safe support of the loved ones near you.

My goal is to empower you by:

• Listening with Empathy: Providing a non-judgmental and supportive environment where you can freely express your emotions and concerns.

• Exploring Coping Strategies: Offering practical tools and techniques to manage stress, anxiety, and the emotional ups and downs of the reproductive trauma journey. 

• Building Resilience: Helping you develop a strong emotional foundation to face the uncertainties and challenges ahead.

• Supporting Your Relationship: Offering guidance to strengthen your relationship with your support team. 

• Foster Self-Compassion: Holding your relationship with yourself as a core factor for resilience and healing is central to my therapy philosophy.
  

Why I do what I do

Reproductive grief and trauma is a deeply personal experience. My commitment is to honor your unique journey and provide the support you need to move forward with hope and clarity. I am here to help you find peace amidst the chaos and to be a steadfast ally in your quest to build a beautiful and meaningful future. 

Let’s Connect

If you’re ready to take the next step in your journey, I would be honored to work with you. Feel free to reach out to schedule a consultation or ask any questions you might have. Together, we can explore the path that’s right for you.

Thank you for considering me as part of your support system. I look forward to the opportunity to work with you.

Warm regards,

Ahlia Kim, LMFT